Asian men have trouble dating
Rudder looked at millions of OKCupid interactions between 20, involving more than 25 million people, and charted out the racial and gender preferences he found.
"Our desires are fashioned by consumption, by the media and by commerce in very deep-seated ways that we may not even recognize.
That fashioning of what is desirable, certainly a large part of it is racially defined," he added.
"My family was more open initially than hers, even though we had all known each other.
The only way I can put it is, African Americans in America are at the bottom." Mark dated all kinds of women, but said he "always had a thing for Asian women.
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