datingace ru - Five things every woman should know about online dating

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Instead of going on dates and forming a committed relationship, you text, hang out, hook up for months (maybe years), and yet still have no idea what you’re doing with each other.

This is especially prevalent among people in their 20s who are not ready for commitment and still trying to find out what they really want.

I have been writing about relationships for a while now and over the years I have noticed some prominent points of confusion, ones that seem to be shared by women of all ages from all around the world (no exaggeration).

Five things every woman should know about online dating

Don’t despair – I have a little secret that is sure to perk you up: men – yes, those creatures who are so often the bane of our very existence, the ones who puzzle us and tear us apart inside, the ones that cause so much grief but always keep us coming back for more – are not all that difficult to understand.

In fact, I think I have an easier time explaining why men do things than I do with women.

People don’t like talking on the phone or think no one talks on the phone so they don’t do that either.

Perhaps, to many, talking on the phone feels too formal, especially when “I’m chill” is frequently thrown around among the casual daters. Dating has become so much more gender-equal and less straightforward — it’s not always clear-cut if a meeting is a date or not. Instead of meeting each other organically then finding out even the most basic info, nowadays people are likely to know most things about their date before even deciding to date thanks to Facebook, Twitter, Linkedin, personal websites, etc.

As the approach to dating becomes more casual among people in their 20s and considering the financial situation of most 20-something isn’t that great yet, they’re more likely to opt for drinks date than dinner date, not to mention having drinks is low key, cheap, puts people in good mood and requires little effort.

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