Speaking up will force guys to acknowledge their bad behavior, even if they’re in denial about it.
When I first meet someone, I’m always upfront and honest when it comes to what I think the other person should know about me.
Sadly, not everyone always agrees with this policy, believing that it can cause drama and unnecessary rifts between people.
The problem with this is that it often sets a certain precedent, so we’ll lie hoping that somehow, everything will be alright. The sooner you learn to confront things head-on, the better off you’ll be.
Your tolerance for manipulation goes out the window.
When he realizes you’ve lied, he won’t respect you as much.