Radical queer dating
Consequently, I didn’t really hold any of my MOC crushes accountable for their character or actions because I felt like their masculine desirability entitled them to a certain amount of leeway and ultimately justified their obnoxious personalities – to a point.
That cool bravado of self-absorption seems almost expected and even celebrated at times.
And since I’m essentially calling for more community accountability around this, I’m going to be upfront and say that I don’t have the best taste in people, men or women.
I go for emotionally aloof narcissists nine times out of 10, as long as they show an ounce of charisma.
Like with me, there was a time when I viewed MOC queers as the root of all queer misogyny, but that’s not true.