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If he doesn't love you, then he won't call you again and again until he pins you down.
However, don't be surprised if a man takes a week or two after the first date to call.
When they call you, they're the aggressor, they've thought about what they're going to say and have made the time to say it. The Rules work for you when they call you because you may not be home and they'll wonder where you are or have to call again.
The Rules are not about getting a date, but a husband. Remember, The Rules are also about not getting hurt or dumped. Life has enough pain without our adding man pain to it.
We can't control cancer or drunk drivers, but we can restrain ourselves from dialing his number.
If you call him and he doesn't return your call or doesn't ask you out; you'll be crushed.
If you call him, he'll think you're not so elusive and he won't have to work so hard.
They will immediately know that you like them and possibly lose interest! So, if you don't want a man to know how much you like him, or that you feel empty and insecure don't call him.